Aaah but what about thinking too much!

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I agree that thinking twice is the best thing in the world. Recognizing that there is always another side, story or perspective is a valuable tool in our inter-relationships with others. But what about the fussing, worrying and nagging we do to ourselves. The constant flow of thoughts that reverberate in our minds telling us what we should have done, what we should have said or what we actually did or said. I worry about worrying - Is that crazy or what!

The question I ask is how is it that people form opinions of us that are different from how we see ourselves? Is it that they observe things within us from a better perspective or is it that we hide ourselves from others.

Rather a philosophical thought and discussion.
Makes me crave a good curried mince, red wine and some custard to end the evening.

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